Published Jul 20, 2023 by Matthew Stolle, Post-Bulletin, Rochester, Minn Terry Nelson is a foremost authority on Oopsisms.
An oopsism is a foot-in-mouth remark. It's saying something before you know what you're going to say. It is blurting out a remark, sometimes with painful and hurtful consequences, before you can check at the door.
We've all been guilty of it.
Nelson, an associate dean of the University of Alaska, says such remarks are a widespread but unfortunate feature of daily conversations. She will be discussing the art of effective communication in a series of workshops called "#Oopsisms: Effectively Communicating Across Cultures in the 21st Century" in Rochester.
Nelson said she had been teaching racism and implicit bias for almost 10 years in a largely white institution when she discovered the term microaggression tended to stall and inhibit classroom discussion.
"Students were less likely to participate fully and share their knowledge during class discussions when the term was used," she said.
So she coined the word oopsism to describe the "unintentional blunder" by anyone that could be interpreted as a negative "ism." Whatever the ism, be it ageism, sexism, racism, homophobia, or elitism, the effect is to create a "mental and physical discomfort for the receiver."
"Oopsisms can occur with individuals within the same group or outside one's group. In other words, oopsisms do not discriminate," Nelson writes.
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